How does one succeed in life?
11.06.2025 04:23
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Why do Indian parents force their kids to do stuff?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Do not set goals—set systems.
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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Why do we exist, and why are we conscious?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Ask yourself:
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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
That's it for today.
What I need from you?
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
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Avoids sugar and is very fit.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Procrastinates a lot.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Does not procrastinate.
Making more friends is a goal.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.